It is okay to love on you. We are to bust loving on everyone else and at times they don't even know that you exist. Remember to show yourself grace and mercy first. Just like putting on your mask if something happens on a flight. The same goes for showing yourself love and care first. You can't give from what isn't really there. I know it's easier said than done. Try it out and see how you feel. Draw yourself a warm bath, make a nice bowl of warm porridge. wake yourself up inside and out. Just so you can be peaceful and ready for your day. Ready for the world and all that comes with it. Conduct yourself with genuine cheer and feel more free to be you.