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Don't be a Prick

Don't be a Prick

Listen, I know that the statement is a strong one but as a person with unseen disabilities people can be pricks sometimes. That's just a fact. I implore you all to look inward when interacting with others. be mindful and treat others like you'd treat yourself! Have found that being kindhearted person served me well so far. I'd just like to know how to be assertive when it comes to dealing with pricks. I'll say it again treat others as you'd like to be treated ; )

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Create Don't Hate

Create Don't Hate

Create Instead of hate each and every day, It is a must ! Creating will keep you going, Creating is like fuel to the soul. I used this phrase to always remember the magic of a pivot and what creatively pivoting can be a life line; a casual Saturday or a something you do each and everyday. Create don't Hate was an anthem I'd play through the tough times. I didn't know what I didn't know and now that I've grown up a bit I can see how necessary using creativity to heal is. How much being able to see...

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Sweet and Neat

Sweet and Neat

Over the years I've been asked all sorts of questions but one that sticks out is why am I pretending. pretending to be neat and proper. I say that it's not an act its the way that I was brought up. Behave proper, normal like. Conceal don't feel! I have no idea what that meant but if it meant the approval of the governing bodies "my parents" I did my very best. It's only when I had been loured into a bad situation that I realized what being different was and what being normal was. It was at that moment...

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The Neurodiversity summit 2022

The Neurodiversity summit 2022

In all that you do make sure your authentically you! Find the right people that fit who you are authentically! Not the watered down version of someone you thought you were. This is imperative to live authentic lives filled with love; joy, freedom happiness and belonging. We are the only ones who can make that happen. Ain't no one on this planet that could do it for you. You've got to want it for yourself! The Neurodiversity summit 2022 is the fist of its kind run and let by neurodiverse individuals who live as authentically themselves as you'd ever hope...

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Look at what you've made

Look at what you've made

Be appreciative of the things you've built. You've put the work in to have a calm and peaceful life. Take inventory of your falls and what you've learned from them. Find a corner of your life that you've made grand strides in. Celebrate the places you've been amazing in. Give yourself grace and go hard in the places that your not doing so great in. Be your own cheerleader first the others will show up just as reinforcements.

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