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Love on you

Love on you

It is okay to love on you. We are to bust loving on everyone else and at times they don't even know that you exist. Remember to show yourself grace and mercy first. Just like putting on your mask if something happens on a flight. The same goes for showing yourself love and care first. You can't give from what isn't really there. I know it's easier said than done. Try it out and see how you feel. Draw yourself a warm bath, make a nice bowl of warm porridge. wake yourself up inside and out. Just so you can...

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Fast forward that part!

Fast forward that part!

Some times we feel so overwhelmed that we just wish we could fast forward some parts. but that isn't reality. We have to stumble sometimes and fall. We have to feel fear and do the hard things anyway. We must build the courage and gusto to for fill even our most difficult tasks in life in order to reap the spoils and rewards at the finish line. Dare to smile through the tough times and build better resilience and strength. Fast forwarding the tough parts doesn't make the rewards sweeter it makes life harder and harder to get through. Contractually...

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See the BeaUtea

See the BeaUtea

See the beauty in what life brings. As authentically autistic folk we have to see the beauty in all things. It's how we get through the days of frustration or the fabulousness of a wonderful week. Seeing beauty in individuals when there is none, is what authentically autistic minds and hearts do on a daily. Dare I say minute by minute basis, depending of the person. We find the beauty in rude and obnoxious people. Giving second and third chances when it is not deserving. No one can say that authentically autistic people don't forgive and love in tremendous batches. Let's...

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Hugs and Kisses

Hugs and Kisses

Love is all we need! Showing love to others is a must. Most of the time, individuals with autism are full of love and affection for others. Which is taken advantage of by persons that don't really care to see a thriving community. This is going to stop! We can be loving and caring without your approval. We can do great things! We will find love in every nook and cranny. We will be authentically ourselves. xoxo

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Teach ; )

Teach ; )

Teach others how to treat you! Be authentically you! Find it in you to be the greatest you that you can be! Being authentically autistic is a difficult feet, but absolutely worth it. Bringing creative authenticity to each and every task given and preformed. Building new ways of thinking and doing. providing new ways to look at the world each and every day. Teach individuals that we meet that we are competent, creative, capable individuals. Go ahead and start teaching your skills and talents today ; ) 

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